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    Home / Entrees / Burgers & Sandwiches / BBQ Meatloaf Burger, and an Opportunity to Choose Kindness Instead

    BBQ Meatloaf Burger, and an Opportunity to Choose Kindness Instead

    June 28, 2016 by Ingrid Beer 18 Comments

    To some, a BBQ meatloaf burger sounds utterly mouthwatering and delicious; and yet to others, it may perhaps seem a little over the top. Certainly our tastes can differ on all things in life, because we each experience and process things in a unique way, which is actually wonderful grounds for interaction between us. The hope is that our interaction can be done in a spirit of kindness, compassion and curiosity rather than judgement.

    BBQ Meatloaf Burger, and an Opportunity to Choose Kindness Instead

    Developing recipes packed with love, care and good intention, and then putting them out there into the public forum for any and all to peruse and scrutinize, can have both its pros and its cons, as you can imagine.

    The pros are that I get to share what's swimming around on the inside—my creativity, encouragement, love and nurture—with others through the work that I do; and in return, I so very often am blessed to receive amazing interaction and connection from the audience that makes what I do meaningful, alive, and an utter joyful pleasure.

    In my view, the vast majority of people keep things positive, and are looking to also connect and find something that resonates with them, either in a recipe or in a post, and don't visit a site like mine for the explicit reason to be judgmental or rude; rather, they have an attitude of curiosity and appreciation.

    But every now and again, on rare occasion, there'll be a snarky comment, or a “question” that seems more like an opinion statement rather than a question, that comes through on the blog that simply makes me shake my head at how we human beings can be in our behavior toward one another.

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    I recently had a visitor who shared her opinion (disguised as a loaded-yet-innocent question, in this case) on the quantity of some of the ingredients I used in a particular recipe, not at all hiding her skepticism that the recipe would be very good if those were, indeed, the amounts I meant to list.

    And never mind that the comments below that recipe (which just happened to be fairly popular one) were from many folks who had prepared it according to the instructions and had enjoyed it thoroughly.

    That, I guess, didn't matter.

    So what does one do with that?

    My first impulse, which in a situation like this is often governed by that purely emotion-driven and defensive part of myself, was to call her out and let her know that I felt she had only come to comment in order to express judgement.

    What I wanted was to be snarky right back.

    But instead, I gave it a few moments, took a deep breath (or two, or three), shook my head at the absurdity of it all (her comment and my irritation with it), and decided to, instead, try to engage that more empathetic part of myself in order to provide her with a kind response, and address the issue she brought up.

    Human interactions...gotta love 'em!

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    But in all sincerity, we do gotta love 'em.

    They're what provide that good type of friction, and what teach those of us who want to continue growing upwardly to be more merciful, compassionate, loving, graceful, and gratitude-filled people, while sharpening our inner “tools”, or spiritual life.

    They create spaces and opportunities to practice finding love and kindness as a response even when it's difficult to, or it isn't our first impulse.

    They're where the rubber meets the road.

    My prayer lately has been that I react with kindness and understanding in challenging situations.

    My hope is that I can be motivated by something higher and more loving when I interact with others, and see them more as our Creator sees them.

    What a thing that would be!

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    So while I did, in all honesty and transparency, become irritated and feel slighted by the tone of the visitor's comment (or “question”), she did actually give me a couple of gifts: first, she gave me a topic on which to write a post (love that!); and second, she gave me yet another opportunity (among many in any given day) to be aware that I can make a choice in regards to how I see things and respond to them, taking a moment to turn my face to the One who created me to ask for a better attitude and a more loving and merciful way of being.

    A more kind way of seeing.

    And that's a request I know from personal experience that never gets denied.

    Sure, you may or may not care for my BBQ Meatloaf Burger recipe, and wonder why I didn't just leave meatloaf well-enough alone?

    You may wonder why I made it the way that I did, or why I used the ingredients or quantities that I did; or, you may just love it!

    And you know what? That's all A-OK.

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    I think if each of us can try to find that more merciful and kind part of ourselves, that part that can relate to another and imagine standing in their shoes, then I think how we approach each other and then how we respond will look a lot less judgmental and snarky, and a lot more genuinely inquisitive, kind, caring, and compassionate.

    Who knew the world of blogging could teach such lessons!

    Taste what's good and pass it on.

    Ingrid

    BBQ Meatloaf Burger with Crispy-Fried Shallots
    by Ingrid Beer

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    Yield: Serves 4-6

    Ingredients:

    • 1 ½ lbs. organic ground beef (I used 85/15 ratio)
    • 3 ounce french roll, processed into breadcrumbs in food processor (or roughly 2 cups loosely packed)
    • 1 egg, whisked
    • 2 cloves garlic, pressed through garlic press
    • ½ small onion, finely diced
    • 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
    • 1 tablespoon chopped, flat-leaf parsley
    • 1 teaspoon salt
    • ½ teaspoon black pepper
    • 1 ¼ cup BBQ sauce (recipe below, or store bought is fine)
    • Brioche burger buns, toasted
    • Mayo
    • 8-12 strips crispy bacon
    • Crispy-fried Shallots (recipe below, or you can use store-bought crispy-fried onions)

    Preparation:

    -Preheat the oven to 350°, and line a baking sheet with parchment or foil.

    -Place the ground beef into a large bowl; add in the remainder of the ingredients up to and including the black pepper, and gently mix together with your hands just until well combined.

    -Place the meat mixture onto the prepared baking sheet and hand-form into a meatloaf shape; brush about ¼ (heaping) cup of the BBQ sauce all over the meatloaf, then sprinkle on a little black pepper, and bake for about 45-50 minutes, or until cooked through; allow the meatloaf to rest for about 10 minutes.

    -Slather on about ½ cup more of the BBQ sauce, then slice the meatloaf into medium-thick slices.

    -Assemble the burgers by spreading a little mayo (if desired) onto both top and bottom bun; add a couple of slices of meatloaf (you can add a little more BBQ sauce, if desired), followed by a couple of strips of bacon and a sprinkle of some of the Crispy-fried Shallots; cover with top bun, and serve.

    -(For any leftovers, just do what my hubby loves to do: reheat the meatloaf slices in a pan until warm and slightly browned-crisp, and assemble.)

    BBQ Sauce Ingredients:

    • 1 cup organic ketchup
    • 2 tablespoons Worcestershire sauce
    • 1 tablespoon plus 1 teaspoon brown sugar
    • 2 teaspoons apple cider vinegar
    • 1 teaspoon yellow mustard
    • 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard
    • ¾ teaspoon liquid smoked seasoning (can typically be found in the condiment isle)
    • ½ teaspoon granulated onion
    • ½ teaspoon black pepper
    • Pinch of two salt
    • Pinch of cayenne pepper

    Preparation:

    -In a small bowl, whisk together all ingredients until well-combined; spoon into a container and use immediately, or store in fridge (also any unused portion).

    Crispy-fried Shallot Ingredients:

    • Vegetable oil, for frying
    • 4 shallots, sliced thinly into circles
    • Salt
    • Black pepper
    • ¼ cup, heaping, flour
    • Pinch paprika

    Preparation:

    -Place oil into a small/medium-size pot, and slowly bring the oil up to 365°.

    -Meanwhile, place the sliced shallots into a bowl, and sprinkle on a couple of pinches of salt and pepper, plus the flour and the paprika; toss to coat.

    -In batches (if necessary), add the flour-coated shallots into the hot oil, and fry for a couple of minutes until golden-brown; remove with slotted spoon and drain on paper towel, and sprinkle with a little extra salt/pepper, if desired; repeat with remaining shallots.

    -Once cooled, they can be stored in a ziplock bag lined with a paper towel.

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    About Ingrid Beer

    Ingrid obtained her Culinary Arts degree in 2005 after graduating with honors from the California School of Culinary Arts (Le Cordon Bleu program) in Pasadena, CA.

    She has had the pleasure and privilege of being the Executive Chef for two substance abuse facilities in Malibu, Ca., as well as a personal chef for private clients.

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    Comments

    1. Karly

      June 30, 2016 at 2:15 pm

      Gorgeous. Delicious. I am totally obsessed with anything meatloaf, and this is just incredible! I must try this recipe soon!

      Reply
      • The Cozy Apron

        June 30, 2016 at 6:36 pm

        Hey Karly, thanks so much! 🙂

        Reply
    2. Joanne Murray

      July 07, 2016 at 10:40 am

      I'm looking forward to making this recipe- all delicious ingredients. I know my family will love it. Thank you for another great meal idea!

      Reply
    3. Meghan

      August 11, 2016 at 11:25 pm

      This literally made me drool. Like, literally. Maybe it's because I'm pregnant but either way I can't wait to make this!

      Reply
      • The Cozy Apron

        August 14, 2016 at 8:16 pm

        Congrats to you on your pregnancy, Meghan! I hope you give this a try!

        Reply
    4. Jasmin M

      February 05, 2017 at 9:01 pm

      Hi! Do you think I could form these into patties and make on the stove top? Will they keep their shape? I have already tried it loaf form and it was delicious! I'm anxious to try patty form. Thank you!

      Reply
      • The Cozy Apron

        February 06, 2017 at 12:14 am

        Hi Jasmin, yes, I don't see why not! Glad you enjoyed the recipe in the past, hope you enjoy again!

        Reply
    5. Robbie - Yorkshire Caterers

      September 11, 2017 at 9:06 am

      I'm so curious/excited about tasting this. It certainly looks amazing definitely a must try!

      Reply
      • The Cozy Apron

        September 11, 2017 at 2:59 pm

        Hi Robbie, thanks! Hope you do try it!

        Reply
    6. Bonnie

      September 14, 2017 at 3:10 pm

      It sounds outrageously good. I'm lazy, though. I need someone to come make it for me! Or, invite me over. I'll bring dessert. From the store!

      Reply
      • The Cozy Apron

        September 14, 2017 at 3:47 pm

        Haha! I love it Bonnie! Thanks for your comment.

        Reply
    7. Mia

      January 01, 2018 at 12:44 pm

      This recipe originally stopped me because the picture makes me wanna lick my phone. I digress, however! I've made this many times. Even sliders. WINNERS!!! YOUR SPIRIT in this blog made me comment, usually don't, but I SO LOVE this one. Thanks

      Reply
      • The Cozy Apron

        January 01, 2018 at 1:20 pm

        Mia, thank you for commenting! I feel honored. So glad you’ve been enjoying the recipe, and your words about the spirit in this blog really moved me. I appreciate your kindness very much!❤️

        Reply
    8. kimmyd

      February 18, 2018 at 5:29 am

      I was here for the recipe but got to reading your post and it was exactly what I needed. Thank you so much for your post. You have no idea how much you helped me today.

      Reply
      • The Cozy Apron

        February 18, 2018 at 10:00 am

        Hi Kimmy, thank you so much for sharing that with me; I'm really touched to know that. My hope here with The Cozy Apron is offer up food of both a physical and spiritual nature, and the fact that you received what you were "hungry" for—something on a bit of deeper level—is a blessing. Glad you feel you received something of value here.

        Reply
    9. Chelsey

      September 24, 2020 at 9:33 pm

      I seriously just pinned your braised brisket recipe, then scrolled to see this beauty and my first thought was “oh my goodness woman! You’re killing my diet!” Lol. Your post here is Just beautiful. I pray to have more of the kind of grace and perspective you wrote about above, every day. Thank you for sharing. Your recipes and words are just lovely.

      Reply
      • The Cozy Apron

        September 25, 2020 at 1:16 pm

        Wow, Chelsey, thank you so much! I really appreciate your comment.

        I hope you enjoy the recipes and find lots of comfort in them (even if they do "kill" your diet, lol!).

        Reply
    10. Laura

      January 12, 2022 at 6:43 pm

      I love meatloaf sandwiches!! Try it with red onion and spicy mustard. They best! I’m totally trying this!

      Reply

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